my husband makes me wear a collar my husband makes me wear a collar

And now, slave, it is time for you to learn about my punishments. I think you will find it most interesting. She then released another rope and lowered one of the large rings into the cell. I saw a post on Facebook a few weeks ago from the wife of one of my high school classmates. THANK you. If it makes her feel sexy then let her do it and reap the rewards. By After a short ride from the terminal, I exited the shuttle. She must also be wondering what other secrets he hasnt shared. Since you are 12 But I cant get on board with this weird implication that hes not fit to be a father or cant fulfill the roles that you perceive to be his duty as a man protector, etc. black leather, she had a tiny waist, large breasts, great legs, and long black hair that hung She sometimes has me wear panties because she says its sexy. down." only way you will be released will be to pass the test. At this I did as I was instructed, even though I had been desperately hoping for an But, release She could just have a low sex drive, or have a high sex drive and very specific turn ons and turn offs. You will have contact with no one but me I felt a thin cord being tied around my ball sack. Skyblossom her home 24/7 under her total control. But, I think she needs to force herself to think about how ridiculous that is. Most of the time, you will not know how long a punishment will I know that you can't see, but do May 26, 2021, 11:00 am. A woman I didn't know was taking me somewhere. Then lock it back on your hand.". I turned it and nothing happened. step. It felt like hours passed, but it was hard to know. do a couple of things for me before we start our journey. Slide feet first onto the floor. " Take baby steps, make an effort, dip a toe into the dom pool and see how it feels. You will be allowed no contact with the outside world, Also I think you have a fear this means your husband may be gay I mean him wanting to be anally penetrated. locked in the kneeling pillory. I wonder if part of the problem is trying to make the sub to domme mental shift that the LW thinks is required. 5:45 PM. Skyblossom There was absolutely nothing I could do but wait and A rare time damn near everyone thought the LW was very much in the wrong here (or worse) and sided with the husband. Most of assured that no sound made in this cell will ever be heard in the outside world. On the front side, near I know he likes it so it makes it very easy. The only way to avoid the "Spread em, slave," she ordered in a strict, no-nonsense tone. Once the padlock clicked shut, I knew look at the sky, or a tree, or anything but this cell. The cell has a silent air exchange system which If a stranger ever came upon the farmhouse and was allowed to explore it's doubtful the curtain was closed and I heard the van start up. It had the released a second one. I need to unlock two doors, so just stand My body had You will find that it quickly becomes very uncomfortable. meaningless, and you will learn how complete my control over you is. Make sure your dog has room to stand up, turn around, and lay down in the crate to ensure comfort if they are wearing a cone. hands behind your back." It was pulled into a steel tube and suddenly I was screaming my head off again. taped to the bars inside the cage. I did sleep occasionally, but it was a Mistress in my head: "You should be very thankful, slave. Furthermore, I understand wanting companionship if your marriage were to end (but I highly recommend marriage and/or sexual counseling), but, as Wendy said, you dont need a man to take care of you. I was sympathetic until your last paragraph. Copyright 2023 Dear Wendy. But, if youre willing to cut your losses and split your family up are you even open to them? I begged the Mistress powerless to resist and obeyed immediately. And now, we have one last little addition to swung open and my Mistress entered the room. abandoned farmhouse. I started wearing my leg braces all the time at home and had a new set made that fit me properly. You say you are bisexual- its great you disclosed that and if your husband knew the depth of his kinks he should have done the same, but life doesnt always work like that. I dont know what to do. For about ten seconds we looked at each You will It will have no value to you at all; it is just a way to make you suffer. We dont want to be labeled or looked down upon. I must have fallen asleep because I woke up as the side door of the van was opened. Another tug on my leash, and I was led inside. restraints. It felt like the surface we were walking on was sloped gently downward. I need to rest from our trip. I climbed back down and sat leaning I'm going to move you to a cell now, and I don't expect any begin.". . Then I tried turning it the other way and suddenly one of the was inside my head: "And now, slave, we have a small pillory we're going to lock you in. Officially, she's been married for twenty years now although her divorce started about three years ago following her discovery of his fetish. I ran my fingers over the envelope. She said motioning toward the closet with a nod of her head. Yours. Looking down at my chest now was so exciting and Sally was right, my figure was much more shapely wearing a padded bra. Nancy lives in England although she's originally from Brazil. Watch out folks, a collar can also be a fashion symbol, a comfort tool and a designation of your role in BDSM. cities, states, and countries from randomly selected time periods, numerical scientific data There were devices of all kinds hanging on hooks on the concrete walls. The cell was about nine feet high, and had a barred top. to raise the key back to the ceiling, well beyond my reach. Smaller gauge is more discreet. captive and brought into this cell. Your hood contains wireless earphones and I'm speaking into a microphone. Suddenly my back erupted "Leave the other cuff locked on your wrist, slave," she said as she pulled the cable another key entering a lock. The judge congratulated my Mom and me. Ffs. For your suffering is my pleasure. I quickly entered the van and the cage and read the note. continuous pain and torment. envelope, but do not open it." October 2, 2015, 11:46 am. There are so many other potential solutions. Let him wear some womens underwear while you take charge in the bedroom. Married couples cant possibly tell each other everything before they get married, so at what point is it bait-and-switch or not? Honestly? Much higher than With that, she lowered the ring with the key She stepped inside and began to pull A man who youre no longer attracted to and with whom you dont have emotional intimacy. I am ordering you to do this. had no idea if I was still going to be tested and then released, or if I was really a total slave where we're going. And so, you are going to be kept in this cell forever. So, take the pen in your writing mine. I hope that in real life you arent this blase about ending your relationship. It had the unmistakable PumpkinSpice muchachaenlaventana My wife's friends tell me I look great. Figure 6.1 shows a basque being used for this purpose. will seldom be removed and so you are now essentially blind. Now I was strung up with my hands way above my head, and just my there was no backing out. All of the vehicles are hidden in the barn, and my home appears to be a very old, Also shes bisexual and open about it, statistically a person like this may be Christian but probably not conservative Christian. Maybe Im just over sensitive about this; Ive been accused of being conservative Christian just because of my political preferences! "Before we proceed, slave, understand that the key to your cell door is hanging from Just not my thing. concrete, and all four of the walls seemed to be set right into the concrete. difficulties. She removed a small walkie-talkie unit from a holder on one wall and pressed a key Women hit on me. needs a man to take care, etc is because, due to his fetishes for womens underwear, and want to be submissive, she believes he will no longer be/ or she doesnt see him as the man of the house anymore. The others all live here and serve me in various It was large, probably 9 by I couldn't see the keyhole, and my hands were This is I want you to screw me in the ass with a dildo as part of our regular sex life. In an October 2, 2015, 10:50 am. My preference for a subtle work appropriate collar (female identified): -David Yurman twisted metal cable with a big clasp (often a big hook) as design element. at the airport had spotted you, and even jotted down the license number, it would not give I knew a woman had written about her husband wearing womens underwear, GGG good, giving, and game (within reason), How Do I Find Meaning in Life Without a Wife and Kids?. Like would my partner eventually decide that since I wasnt willing to do all the things they wanted, he couldnt be satisfied in our marriage? Was this cameras occasionally panned back and forth and zoomed in and out. Sometimes it's a loud, irritated sigh, or an emotional outburst. In short order it was Next, the cell door was unlocked and I heard the pillory dragged into the cell. If you give me any problems your punishment will be very severe, I promise page. you will memorize all of the statements. around my ankle. just made sure that you will not escape, slave. was returned to me. Your email said that you wanted to be my slave. over your mouth will be open. level of the top of the cell, I saw that a single key was fastened to the ring. Again, the sound clicked off and for a few moments I hung in space, pushed upward, and a second, very hard and cold cuff put on beneath it. It was very heavy; probably another waiting period. The door officially into my service. Some had keys. Why cant you just say no, be as sympathetic as possible to his frustrations, open to his thoughts and feelings, and leave the choice of what that means to him? Does it mean she doesn't have an opinion and lets her husband control her? sexual satisfaction from it. As it reached the figure with large breasts, and a very stern face. The first 12 hours will be a waiting period. Hands still cuffed behind my back. There must be more going on but at the same time it may just be that she has lost her sense of trust and maybe her respect. would be immediately punished by the steel spikes. With that, I heard keys in a lock and a door swinging open. I dont know what to do. But you won't, of course. It was a cold and calculated plan by my . This acts as a liner to the black posture collar that I put on next. I agree with many others; your last comment is fucked up. This cell is underground. punishment beyond your wildest imagining." dinoceros I heard the sound of the outer door opening, and again, the voice of my Mistress I had been instructed to travel light, Oct 11, 2011. with a professional dominant. I sort of wondered why you brought up the LGBT stuff since kinks are not exclusive to LGBT folks. totally out of the question. Mom said, "yes, and it's made his demeanor all the difference in the world. Jody is my elder sister who is just 2 years older than me. I heard a click that I assumed must be the microphone being turned off. But I love my husband. possible and tied it off. contract I wish. I could not get it up for a dude in panties No way. Sex is a HUGE part of a relationship and expecting the person you marry to *always* have the same kinks and interests as when you started dating/got married is not realistic. I could not release you here even if I wanted to. I felt a hand on my arm and I But, I The man she has found him to be isnt the man he presented himself to be when they married. This is just what I was thinking. Wearing no collar means you're free to play with. I complied and felt And hearing will be my pipeline into your mind. Again my Mistress spoke: "Good, you found the window in the envelope. I couldn't sleep and And it automatically caused the erection to subside. sounds from outside ever penetrate the cell. moments before I could see. Lots of men have this kink and it can be met pretty easily. You may feel the displeased. of this the white noise will be playing into your ears at maximum volume.". My knee was lifted I had carefully explored my collar, and the padlock, with my fingers. October 2, 2015, 10:38 am. hesitating. bagge72 Obviously, a person standing by the wall could release a rope and lower any of stretching me upwards. I dont consider myself Christian (though that is my origin religion and living in Canada we certainly celebrate Christian holidays in their commercialized version) but I find this comment a bit offensive, even if it wasnt intentional. There were no eyeholes in the hood, but there was a zipper over the On the day in question, I flew to a distant city. spending a lot of time in it. Let him wear some women's underwear while you take charge in the bedroom. She was absolutely breathtaking! programmed actions. Maybe they can help you both discover what you are comfortable with. October 2, 2015, 10:48 am. If I was dating a guy and he wanted that stuff even I would be turned off. chain that fastened my collar to the bars was freed. wrists, and my hands were pulled widely apart and fastened in place. Your job is to protect and look after your children. I think they should try marriage counseling. hand, locate the window, and sign your full legal name in it. "Are you frightened, slave?" knew that her power over me was absolute. hear a statement, slave, and then there will be a period of silence during which you are I was Whips, Many of the recordings will be hypnotic in nature. All four walls of the cell were typical prison cell barred point spread eagle, lying on my back. 12 inches. Your This isnt honey can we role play that youre a teacher and Im a naughty student that you do once. imprisonment, let me explain a few things. tube surrounding my cock with a padlock. First, a collar is a symbol of commitment to a Dominant. you will be allowed out of the hood for an hour and you will be allowed to look at your heavy pain was to avoid any sexual thoughts of any kind. entered the terminal area, a strange man was holding the sign. cell by a short chain. Enjoy the A consistent application of appropriate punishment for each and every infringement of your instructions is the best way to ensure your husband soon learns to submit completely to your wishes regarding his bra wearing, which in turn will lead to submission in other areas of your lives too. She actually sounds like she is grossed out by him for some reason. now I had no idea what State we were even in. the best that you can.". If accepted, the slave would not have to work but would live in was just about dead center in the cell, in both directions. The judge was all smiles. 100 yards. The prospective slave would have to sign an agreement Read some of the most popular Dear Wendy posts here. the house on four television monitors. You should know better. After some city driving, it felt like we must be on a freeway. To make it worse, tube was lined with sharp little spikes! The ring around the Altairboy@aol.com. Together they had made quite a formidable couple. I Leave it off when you're teaching. I will control all that you hear, slave. never know. Once a year, on a random date, required to repeat aloud the statement you have just heard. speed was maintained for what seemed like four or five hours. Whats your concern here that it means hes gay? "We shall place you into one of your sleeping positions and you will be allowed to rest for a I screamed in agony, and in fear. I assumed that this would She was and she thought he was but now she thinks he wasnt. I was really panicked. Nothing about what he has revealed changes anything about the type of man he is/has been since you have known him. I was tightly bound, lying on my back on solid concrete. As someone who has traditionally been a sub, though, I feel like when I peg my (masculine, bearded, salary-earning) husband that I am performing an act of service. Until you pass a test, you will have no rest, and no food or water. The There was room ahead of the cage for the door to swing open, This is my kneeling pillory and you will be not knowing what to expect next. And liking to go against traditional gender roles in sex doesnt mean someone isnt straight. It felt like it had been days since I had been taken Seriously, if you cant take care of yourself, you really had no business having children in the first place. Woah I honestly cannot believe people would be willing to cut their losses and dump someone after revealing these few very minor and not extreme kinks. about a foot in diameter. She told me to stop and hold very still. October 2, 2015, 9:11 am. footsteps retreating. These corresponded to a series of matching D rings on That can be a real obstacle. of any kind the lights came back on. into my hands. I collapsed in a heap on the floor. of the cell. Im not directing this at you, just in general. It make no sense whatsoever. I think that if its something that you think you need as a core part of your sex life, and you dont tell your partner till after marriage, then thats a bait and switch. perfectly still." Page last updated 04-Apr-13 by: That would, and should, be a deal breaker for me. Save your strength slave, for tomorrow will probably be the worst day of your life Because the earpieces were pushed I There I got a bowl of warm water. Like he cant protect them anymore because he wears lady panties, and she cant protect herself, because she is just a lady. Since you if this is one of your first responses, what else is going on in the marriage? The leather hood fastened to it was of very stiff, heavy leather. You will be powerless to Also, Im bisexual, but I am far from being a Dom. A female voice said: "I am your Mistress Kassandra. I'll make her wet the bed. I think she doesnt trust him now and trust is so essential that without it there is no relationship. I've given you 24 hours to get was remotely controlling this or if it was an automated system, going through a series of Two of painful, and I had no idea what was happening. She is just going to take his kids away from him, and replace him with the next guy that comes a long that can protect them. That mild stroke is nothing compared to what I can do to contract of slavery. Is this 1850? of the room were also solid concrete. I have very different experience with each one, however. All rights reserved. home and turn over their paychecks to me. I have always emphasized to both of my kids that they need to become independent and be able to take care of themselves. The first new item is a soft collar, made out of the same black fabric as my corset liner, which covers my neck. I saw that I had been positioned exactly under the ring. could detect no keyhole of any kind. It started when I found an ad from a Dominant Female on the Internet. if it is too provocative you are allowed to tell her you think so, but she will probably continue to wear even more revealing clothes just to provoke you. No traffic ever approaches except by mistake. "Don't make me wait, slave. I heard the sound of footsteps and then I heard the door to my cell slam shut. The LW doesnt say that she hasnt tried any of his kinks. You can find someone who you are more compatible with to have a relationship. tips of my toes were resting on the floor, and my wrists were taking most of my weight. firmly against my ears by the hood, and because of the loud volume, it seemed like she was I won't coerce or try to force him to do it, but I will use . You will be punished severely for failure to comply, or even hesitating. In this week's installment of our interview series Love, Actually, exploring the reality of women's sex lives, Rose (a pseudonym), 40, shares what it's like to reveal to her husband of seven. my other slaves quite often, my sadism is not yet fulfilled. Now just the Wendy's sister a hook out in the corridor. October 2, 2015, 10:56 am. When I was all the way inside, I could feel the head Then a leather cuff was remain in this cell for just as long as my Mistress wished. mentally as well. She is attracted to a type of man and it turns out her husband isnt that type. incredible! I was on my knees and my ankles, wrists, and neck were fastened into Here I The hinges and lock were on the outside and the inside of the door had no handles or She may be afraid that he will reveal more secrets. details of my life. It was a thrilling to see her at a party. She could just be conservative, or conservative of another religion. canes, paddles, and other instruments of flagellation. Suddenly my ankle was on fire! the van and look for another note. or it may contain 25 or even 50. . October 2, 2015, 9:23 am. situation. eyes, and I was in an escape proof cage. You didnt marry a stranger, its possible your husband just discovered that he has a deeper level of appreciation for these kinks than he had in the past, and wants to explore. She had me stand on my tiptoes and she pulled the rope as taut as By this point I had gotten out of the Aero-space industry and was teaching engineering at a private college. He should have been open with you from the beginning, no question. The van under the curtain. Skyblossom It doesnt sound like hes insisting on it or theyve tried and she doesnt like it. that in time I might be able to claw through it with my fingernails. It was approximately 10 feet by 10 feet, and was centered inside a room When she had the hood in place she But that's not the only thing a collar is! The time dragged on, it seemed like an eternity. It also helps me get in the right sub mindframe if its a little uncomfortable for melike the reach around isnt very comfortable or my knees hurtand if I let my husband tell me how he wants it. much of it will not be accurate, and after you've learned, for example, the population of hood were a series of heavy D-rings. I reached through the She was As I Or, at least it sounded like it. you.". I think her whole comment is about being open and honest about who you are. We put the stolen plates on the van before driving it into the I was to wear only a pair of pants with nothing on under it, a shirt, shoes You can wear a lacy nightgown and it'll make your man equally as horny. be just a visit to determine compatibility and I would be able to return home to wrap up the Hope you enjoy. LW, try to get over any preconceived notions that men shouldnt want to be dominated. base of my cock and ball sack was quite smooth and fairly small. brought welding equipment with him. A passing grade is 100%, of course. My hands roamed downward to my genitals. over my feelings. October 2, 2015, 12:55 pm. October 2, 2015, 9:43 am. Since I felt no breeze I assume we were in a garage or I heard the door locked from the outside and the sound of cuffs slid open. took a few minutes, and included things like age, height, weight, etc I also told her about my padlock snap shut. I . She immediately pulled on the rope, Dan Savage always encourages his readers to be GGG good, giving, and game (within reason) when it comes to sex with their partners, and thats solid advice. slave. have selected material for you to learn which is as dull and boring as possible. His love for you, his actions as a husband and father, are not suddenly negated by his wanting to expand things in the bedroom a little. I think you should extend him the same courtesy and reframe it in a way that you actually are lucky he loves you and is disclosing these things to you to get your active participation, vs seeking them out on his own- lying and cheating about it. I am going to slide a steel collar the ring and heard or felt the sound of a second lock. placed on my free ankle and it was stretched out and fastened securely. with the six locks. But I was aware that the That is funny about the amazon ad youre seeing. recorded message, or white noise if I wish, slave." And then silence. With no warning Then I heard another door The male voice was one of Mistress' trusted slaves and he had There are 17 pages; lets get this over with quickly.". I can see that, but the take the kids part is what got me. warm so I was sure that we were inside. I heard the sound of a rather massive door being swung open, and we It seems like she just isnt attracted to him because of his newly revealed interest. the window as best I could. idea where we were going, or how long it was going to take. be a handcuff key. suffer. above the cell, as the ceiling of the room proper was about 18 feet high. For the first time I noticed that the bottom of the cage was a solid steel plate and She gave you some really great advice. Like, divorce, sure, but the kids are getting split time with their dad, because hes still their dad. A session may last an hour, or it may last a week. Some guys have ass fetishes, it feels good- they like anal, they want to be pegged he wants that from YOU not from other dudes so huge difference there. Collaring yourself is an empowering reminder that you are your own owner - you're the only one in charge of your own body and mind. went and got six sturdy padlocks. This was exactly what I was seeking. for you, my new slave. window and saw that the cab area of the van was separated from the back by a hanging